In 2009 it not odd to meet a man or woman with multiple "Baby Mommas or Baby Daddies!"But How Many....Is Too Many????
When you meet someone and you are getting to know them, what's the magic number that will make you say~ "I'm Cool!"
Does a person having multiple Ex's turn you off? Does it mean too many failed relationships? Is the person irresponsible?
If you happen to meet a single parent, what type of relationship would you consider..?
- A casual relationship only?
- Have a committed relationship, but would never consider marrying the person?
- Allow nature to take its course and consider the person as a possible mate?
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ReplyDeleteI really dont mind how many babymoms or children he has,but in reality if we judging a book by its cover, which most of the time we do (go figure)...i prefer a man with children but not hella bm's & kids its a turnoff..
ReplyDeleteWell I do think that multiple BM's/BD's is not only bad but it does/should raise a red flag.
ReplyDeleteBut on the other hand, that's what "benefit of the doubt" is for. So pay attention and see what happens. Good people sometimes make bad choices. Like looks (beauty is in the eye of the beholder), finances(not everyone can be the CEO someone has to work at the counter) there is someone for everyone and you may pass that person up, who made the wrong choices early get away, when they could have been the best thing for you.
So, to sum this up, follow your heart. Women you know we have a "woman's intuition"..use yours and make the best most sound decision for you and your situation.
And Ms. Marry..you should have made it just a little more visual and said..."With brow wrinkled and right-side of top lip "tooted up”, you say "I'm cool!" LOL maybe add the nose flared too! hahaha
Good Luck Ladies,
i think its more important how many kids rather than how many bm's. and personally i wouldnt want to be with any man that had more than 2 maybe 3 kids. only because its such a big responsibility financially and time wise. and if he isnt taking good care of them all, he cant do nothing for me. and if we get married, i dont want to owe his child support. and if i didnt have to help pay child support how much could he honestly bring to the table?? just sounds like it would make a hard life but thats just mean. more power to anyone that can handle it. and yes, people do make mistakes but kids and bm's dont go away. yuk. bebe
ReplyDeleteoh, and 9 kids well, thats a b/day almost every month of the year. Sounds expensive. too many b-days, school clothes, shoes, christmas presents, easter baskets, 9 graduations (hopefully), 9 college tuitions, 9 cars, 9 senior year expenses, etc. better be pulling in some major dough for that many kids.
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